Adela Vinczeova’s painful confession: Abortion! The presenter uttered chilling words – Azet

The seasoned presenter has not been worried about the topic of pregnancy and motherhood for a long time. In her childhood, she was not like most little girls who run around with a pram and pretend to be mothers. In her teenage years and then as an adult, she also let thoughts about the children around her just flow. In her thirties, after a conversation with a doctor, she began to think more about this question. “And then later came a period when I already had some partners in my life, but even then I didn’t think about wanting to have a child, or rather it just didn’t occur to me. Only then did my gynecologist tell me, when I was 31 or 32 years old, it was high time and then I also said to myself, well, it’s high time. I’ve always been so independent, so obedient, that this is expected of me, this would I should have done…” However, Adela was not sure if she felt the role of mother internally. “Well, that formula overwhelmed me so much that I caught internal stress and panic, and of course, the more we have something in us, the more it is confirmed by the environment,” she told the Najmama portal. At that time, she was a couple with the dancer Peter Modrovský, and they even managed to conceive. “So after nine months I got pregnant, but then I miscarried at 9 weeks, which I probably wouldn’t even call it a drama, because I know other women have had other miscarriages, more difficult and at a different stage, and I took it at that time, as such, some kind of natural development. Of course, I was sad for a few days, but I don’t feel that it somehow broke me inside, even in a short time after that, I had no problem talking about it,” she admitted bluntly. After the breakup of the relationship with the dancer, she fell in love with the presenter Viktor Vincze (31). In June 2017, the couple sealed their love and immediately faced questions about starting a family. Shortly after the wedding, Viktor underwent a fertility test and shared the results publicly. “The quality and number of my sperm is approaching the limit of infertility. I was also surprised. Also by the fact that men today have a much bigger problem than they admit,” he shocked with his honesty at the time. The couple’s doctors first recommended IUI (method of assisted reproduction, editor’s note) “Well, I got such a physical shock, it made me so sick, so uncomfortable, I got such a spasm from it that suddenly it was as if my body gave me a signal “No. You don’t solve it, this is probably not your path,” Adela described her feelings. The blonde didn’t even think about artificial insemination. “There was a time when, of course, the outside world reflected the inside, so I saw someone pregnant everywhere, I thought how unfair it was, I had it for about a year or two, I admit, until I said to myself – and I enjoy this kind of life ?” the moderator arranged it in herself. Focusing on pregnant bellies could only make her unhappy. “What kind of disrespect for life, basically… That I’m fighting for some fictitious life that maybe shouldn’t even be here, and I’m throwing away my own. And if a person doesn’t value that life, then why should he be given the another one? And so I told myself that I have a nice life and that’s what’s important, what I’m grateful for. And that’s the full stop, there’s nothing to think about.” Since IUI and artificial insemination were out of the question, the only option was adoption. “In this calculation of ours, although it sounds like we are looking at it too rationally and mathematically, it also resonates in our hearts, our reasoning that we say to ourselves that there are so many children in the world who even now in connection with Ukraine they don’t have anyone,” she continued. Adela and Viktor have been in the adoption process for over three years. However, the presenter also has great respect for the new addition to the family. “If they called us now, because we’re already quite high on the waiting list – we have a child for you, I probably wouldn’t open the champagne, but I’d be like, hey… We have a lot of respect for that, and maybe in the end we’ll decide that We won’t even go for it. I don’t know that this road won’t be for us either…” she added openly.